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Despite the United States’ immense wealth, around 38 million people still live in poverty. Much of that poverty is structural, the result of discrimination and the country’s paltry social safety net. But in the face of this stark reality, a group of Redditors have shown that it’s not impossible to escape the cycle of poverty in America. In a thread posted to r/PovertyFinance, these Redditors explained how they reached financial stability, sharing tips for other Americans struggling to make ends meet.

1. Take Care of Your Mental Health

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Research has shown that poverty can both stem from and exacerbate mental illness. Two Redditors shared their direct experience with this link between economic instability and mental illness, with one crediting depression treatment as the catalyst for change. 

After years of homelessness and addiction, they were finally “able to hold down a job” after they received a prescription for clinical depression in jail. “I started thinking about the future instead of just dwelling on the present,” they share, adding that government programs were also helpful.

2. Take Advantage of Social Programs

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If there’s one theme throughout this thread, it’s that social programs work. A Redditor who was homeless for a year says they “took advantage of every program” they could until they finally landed a place to live. Others used food stamps to get by while they worked toward stability.

3. Plan Ahead

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“First and foremost: HAVE A PLAN,” one top comment reads. The Redditor goes on to share how they climbed out of poverty, emphasizing the importance of education, hard work, and time.

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4. Get Educated

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Redditors repeatedly cited education as a huge factor in escaping poverty. The data are clear, too: Well-educated Americans earn more and have far lower unemployment rates. Just take a look at high school graduates versus college graduates. The median American with a high school diploma makes $853 a week, while the median weekly earnings for college graduates is $1,432, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics.

5. Live Within (or Below) Your Means

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One phrase continually came up in this thread: Live within (or even below) your means. “The more you live below your means, the more you have to invest,” one commenter advises, echoing others. That means you might have to pinch pennies for years before you can enjoy life’s pricier pleasures.

Related: 36 Money Myths You Need to Ignore

6. Marry the Right Person

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While you don’t necessarily have to marry someone wealthy — though that certainly helps — many Redditors noted the importance of a good spouse. “If you marry, marry someone with the same priorities you have,” one person shares. Another commenter advises only pairing up with people “with no debt and a decent paycheck.”

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7. Learn a Trade

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“Definitely look into trades,” a commenter suggests. “You can finish school pretty quickly and avoid having as much student loan debt.” However, it’s important to mention that some trades pay far better than others, with dental hygienists, air traffic controllers, and radiation therapists earning the most.

8. Don’t Have Children (Until You’re Financially Ready)

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Middle-income families who had children in 2015 are expected to pay $233,610 to raise a child through the age of 17. That’s a ton of money, which explains why Redditors recommend against having kids if you’re struggling financially.

9. Skip the Vices

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According to a WalletHub study, the real cost of smoking cigarettes over a lifetime ranges from $2.22 million to $4.1 million. That’s accounting not only for the many packs of cigarettes smokers buy but also for healthcare expenditures, income losses, and other costs. It makes sense, then, why Redditors discourage picking up vices like alcohol, cigarettes, or cannabis, all of which could damage your health and finances.

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